A wife led relationship can be one in which you simply defer to your wife’s decisions. But there’s another type of relationship where the man becomes completely submissive and essentially hands over all control to the woman.
This is the type of relationship that’s referred to typically when you read about a wife led relationship.
There are degrees of these relationships, and there may be some you are more comfortable with than others. Some of these relationships have the man behaving as a subservient slave when in the home with the woman.
When in public, they appear normal although the man will allow her to make even the most basic decisions, like what to order for dinner.
Other relationships have the man as his own person, but deferring all major decisions to the woman.
Finding a degree of submissive may not be as easy as you think. And even if you want a completely submissive relationship with your wife, she may not be that comfortable with it.
It can be a huge switch for both of you to be in a wife led relationship.
First of all, a truly wife led marriage is one where the man is essentially a slave, and that’s something your wife might balk at even if you want it. Not only might it seem unnatural, but it’s probably unlike anything you’ve ever asked her to do.
This means that you essentially do everything around the house, including all chores, cooking, cleaning and anything she tells you to do.
Of course, she may do many things too, but some men in this type of relationship want to be expected to do everything. They get a thrill out of knowing they are being controlled like a slave.
In fact, some men would be disappointed to find that she’d done a chore before they did it.
This is in part, because the woman is also in complete control of their sexual relationship. In this type of relationship, the woman is expected to use sex and both punishment and reward.
If she is pleased by the chores that the man has done, then offering sexual release is a reward that the man may look forward to. But if she is displeased, then he may be forced to give her pleasure while denied pleasure of his own.
For some men, this is exciting and they look forward to having pleasure withheld because they know that when they are allowed release it will be even better.
Other men may like the idea of a woman making major decisions, but not want that type of relationship in the bedroom.
If you want to try a wife led relationship, it’s important to discuss it with your wife. You may start off by doing more around the house and taking care of her almost like a slave.
Ask what she thinks of it and if she’d like it to continue. That’s a good way to start the conversation about whether or not you can have a wife led relationship.