Most people would think it’s a little underhanded to spy on their husband, and in most cases I’d agree, but if you have reasons to believe your husband is cheating you have every right to find out for sure one way or another.
If you ask yourself: ‘How can I catch my husband cheating’, I have some tactics that might help.
If you’ve noticed a change in your husbands behavior, such as a lack of sexual desire, new clothes or haircut, a lot of unexplained late nights at the office, being overly nice to you and bringing you gifts, or being overly, and unusually, protective of his cell phone or computer, than you already have a pretty good idea that not only is something going on, but just what that something might be.
Here are a few ideas you can use to find out once and for all what your husband is up to when you’re not around.
While it can be painful and you might not like what you find out, it’s better than staying with a man who would lie to your face and possibly even bring home a disease to you.
1. Check his cell phone. He may be pretty protective of it and you may have to be sneaky and grab it while he is showering or sleeping.
More husbands have been caught cheating by having racy text messages or voice mail messages on their phone than you might think!
2. Today the internet is making easier than ever for a man to cheat on his wife.
It’s so easy to find someone online and make arrangements to meet them offline.
It happens all the time. Try to check out the history on your husbands computer.
That will let you know what sites he’s visiting on a regular basis. There are also software products that you can install that will monitor online behavior.
3. Set a ‘trap’ for your husband.
For example, tell him you are going out of town to visit friends or family or that you are going over to one of your friends house to help console her over a bad breakup and that you’ll be gone for a long time.
Then you can wait outside the house and see who shows up, or where he goes.
4. Get a ‘nanny cam’ and set it up somewhere in the house.
You may hear him on the phone or actually get video of him with his lover.
While I don’t really condone spying on someone I do realize that a cheating husband will never admit what he’s been doing and that a spouse has the right to protect herself, and her children, from the many dangerous ramifications of an affair.
So if you aren’t just overly jealous and you have real reason to believe that your husband is cheating, and if you’ve ever asked; “How can I catch my husband cheating,” then by all means use these tips.
No one should have to stay in a bad relationship and no one should have to deal with the pain and betrayal of a cheating husband.
Also published on Medium.