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Finally Dating Advice for Men Over 40
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Finally Dating Advice for Men Over 40

Many men perceive being over 40 as a disadvantage when it comes to dating. But those of you who do will be happy to learn that most women actually like the idea of dating older men.

You also many think that all the “worth-it” women are already spoken for, but this is also not the case.

If you’re over 40 and seeking attractive women to date, you’ll like the following dating advice for men over 40.

First of all, instead of going out and trying to meet women by joining clubs or doing activities that attract women, start doing things that you genuinely like to do.

While you may meet a lot of women at “women-based” places, unless you are really interested in these groups or activities, you will probably not get too far with the ones that you do meet.

While you may have not had time to join certain clubs before, you do have the time now so take advantage of it.

Dress your age and wear clothes that flatter you both in fit and color.

One of the many advantages of being an older guy is that you have the money to spend on clothes.

You don’t have to dress up in a suit and tie all the time (especially if that’s required of you for work) but there are ways to look nice and show your style even if you’re dressed casually.

Women pay attention to sytle and this is one way to attract their attention.

Take a break.

This is often overlooked in other dating advice for men over 40.

But traveling is a fantastic way to meet new interesting people, especially when you’re single.

Go on an organized adventure like a cruise or jungle safari, something that fits your interests.

You can even pick tours that suit your age brackets and tastes specifically.

You might not necessarily find the next woman of your life on this trip but you will definitely have fun and come back refreshed and recharged.

Start going to the parties and events that you turned down in the past.

It’s time to start meeting new people.

While old friends and family are always supportive and make you feel comfortable, you should make a conscious effort to develop new friendships (with men and women alike) as well. . .which can lead to new romances in a more indirect way.

Become a volunteer. Wherever you happen to live, there are surely chances for you to offer your own contributions to the society. Doing this will make you feel better about yourself while also helping others and meeting like-minded people along the way.

Definitely take advantage of the internet but make your own rules.

Stick to dating sites which specifically cater to men and women over 40. Compose your online dating profile with care – be unique and sell yourself. Don’t write the same thing that everyone else does.

And most importantly, look for women with common interests and shared values, not just those who seem “ready to roll” on the first date.

And the last piece of dating advice for men over 40, remember that you can find the woman of your dreams no matter what your age!


Also published on Medium.

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